Most people would probably agree that it’s not a good idea
to flirt with your boss. Their opinions
might not be so clear, however, if you limit the definition of flirting to “eye
contact, smiles, jokes, work-related compliments, and touching on the hand or
arm.” People flirt because it’s fun and
this doesn’t change because someone is your boss. It might even make it more exciting. You’re more likely to enjoy coming into work
if you know that some friendly flirtation with your boss will break up the
monotony of the day. This in turn can
cause you to be more productive, which is as good a reason as any to flirt with
your boss.
Others might flirt with their bosses for career advancement
reasons. Flirting with your boss can
cause him to think more favourably of you, perhaps without realizing quite
why. Some view flirting with as a
legitimate form of networking. If
telling your boss that his presentation was great and joking that’s he’s the
office rock star (because no one else parties like him) can earn you a pay
raise or bonus, wouldn’t you be tempted to do so?
Well, there are some very good reasons why you
shouldn’t. Firstly, do you really want
to be known as someone who uses his looks and charm to get ahead, rather than
working hard like everyone else? People
like to think that success is the direct result of hard work, not
flirtation. Some of these people may be
principled, while others may simply be jealous that they themselves can’t flirt
themselves to a promotion the way you can.
Whatever the reason they oppose you; there are several ways they can make
your time at work difficult. They could
spread rumours that you’re having an affair with your boss, whether or not
that’s true. Even if you can prove your
innocence, such reputations tend to stick.
Furthermore, they may spread their intelligence further afield by
informing your partner about your behaviour at work (perhaps even with
embellishments).
Even if no one else notices or cares, your boss may not be
impressed with your attempts at flirting.
Maybe he just isn’t interested at all.
Or maybe he sees your flirtation as an attempt to curry favour or win
advancement and isn’t impressed that you think he’s so easily swayed. You do not want to anger someone who has
influence over your employment status.
He is also in a position of power (perhaps this is the very thing that
makes him attractive), and would be able to make your time at work
uncomfortable should he so choose.
Finally, although you aren’t taking the same risks she would
be if she was flirting with you, you are still leaving yourself open to
allegations of sexual harassment. This
is never a position you want to be in, as those sorts of accusations often
stick long after they’re proven false.
It seems the risks outweigh the rewards, but that doesn’t stop people
from flirting with their bosses every day.
If you insist on being one of them, be aware of the pitfalls and good
luck!
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